Someone recently told me that they would never be a police officer these days because "you are damned if you do and damned if you don't". 


But, the thing is, it's not these days. And it's not police officers. It's every single human who makes any kind of decision with any merit and power behind it. Someone or some group will not like it. 

We're all damned, all the time, if we're doing anything worthwhile.  

So, the more important quest is not finding the thing that isn't damning, it's making sure we're okay with who is doing the damning and finding ways to mute them while still learning what we can from them.