Bus or Car?

It seems there are two kinds of ways to look at the world: bus and car.

A bus person doesn’t get to choose their own climate, their own music, or even the journey they take to get to their destination. They are with others…. the happiness of the bus is more important than the happiness of the individual. But, in return, it’s more relaxing, the person on the bus doesn’t have to be as concerned about the weather, the traffic, the engine, the… anything… they get to ride with others.

The car person gets to choose everything. Their own climate, music, path, timing, but in exchange they have to responsible for driving. They have to pay attention, they can’t drink, they can’t sleep or lose focus.

The only danger with any of this is that you can’t have both.

You can’t get everything you want individually and not be responsible and, on the flip side, you can not be responsible and not give up the control of something.

You a bus or car person?