jealousy.

“Can you help me with my jealousy?”

”No, but I can prevent you from killing,” the teacher answered.

“No, no, my jealousy isn’t that bad—not like that.” 

“Hmm . . . so what is it? You believe you would be better rich than poor? You believe you would be better with hair? Living in another city? Born in another country? Better if you had not made that decision? If you had made another choice? Had the one you love not behaved in a way that you did not agree with?”

“Well . . .”

“Each time, you kill the reality that exists in favor of some alternative that does not.”

“Are you saying I can’t change my life? I’m helpless?”

“You did not ask how to change your life. You asked if I can help you with your jealousy. The two are not related.”