love Jesus and hate the church.

It's been said that's how the "secular' generally view Christianity. They have no problem with Jesus - it's just the church (or his followers) they can't stand. 

And it's probably true to a large extent... mostly because Christianity, if we're honest, seems to hate Jesus and love the church.

Unfortunately - or fortunatley, Jesus seemed to hang out with those who more fine with him than their church.