grace and jealousy

The times I've been most judgmental and angry at others are the times I have felt that someone has gotten away with doing something that I would have done too, if I had known you could get away with it. 

I've been jealous. They broke my formula. 

The problem with all of this is that grace, by its very definition, is getting away with it. 

When I truly started to realize that, it changed everything.