anniversary.

I’ve been married 31 years today. That’s nuts for so many reasons.

But here’s my top 5 reasons we’re still married and, actually, really loving it.

1. Tons of luck

2. I really don’t know.

3. We have fun.

4. More luck.

5. I once heard this thing about raising kids. It’s not what you do or say, it’s who you are. That’s terrifying and comforting at the same time.
   
   I think the same thing about marriage. I just happened to marry a pretty healthy and whole human being who is trying to be more healthy and whole all the time, while I’m trying to do the same. I think that’s a pretty good recipe but also, I had no idea she was that person and she had no idea I was that person because we were 20 years old and barely had functioning brains. Like I said, pretty lucky.
   
   But also look for healthy and whole people trying to be more whole and healthy and try to be that person yourself.

   
   It certainly won’t hurt… anything.