spoiled.

Diminish or destroy the value or quality of

or

Treat with great or excessive kindness, consideration, or generosity. 

Spoiled milk, spoiled trips, and spoiled brats make me want to hit something but when she spoils me for my birthday, I can't help but smile. 

What gives?

I don't know, but I think we've spoiled our view of God by pushing  a God that doesn't desire to spoil humanity with love.