No one is listening anymore... not in the way we think they are.
I believe this to be true because if we knew how they were listening, we wouldn't be posting most of what is posted.
But there are people who want to listen to you. In person. Face to face. And they want you to listen to them. In person. Face to face.
Find them instead.
(Am I being hypocritical posting this on a blog? Maybe. But I think everything about the blog medium is different than the Twitter, Facebook, Snapchat, and Instagram mediums. That's important. To quote Marshall McLuhan, "the medium is the message".)